My First Love/Crush

RAHMADMEGAAAAA

 The one that we first truely have feelings for. One person that we will never forget, their love will leave an imprint on our heart which will be there forever. At the moment you do not care that you will eventually lose them after a break up because that emotion is amazing. Falling in love was the best thing that has ever happened to us, but now that its gone we feel hopeless. Our first love will be one who will be hardest to get over, the one that can still make we smile even when we having the worst day ever, and the one who after breaking us, we will still love them. Our first love never leaves

 I would like to story about my first love. My first love when I was 15 years old. I met my first love during marching exercises. I felt in love with her because the way she treat me and her attitude on that time was so nice to me. Day by day, we talk and know each other, we start falling in love when the marching competition end. On social media, I always tweet her and try to flirt her through twitter. Day by day I try to flirt her and atlast we are together as a couple.

 Our relationship last long untill three years. Like normally, in relationship we had a fight because of jealousy,misunderstood and many more. We broke up likes three times in that three years. High school love is what we call puppy love. We have made such a lot of memories. A memories that I can not forget was when I make a suprised for her birthday because all of her friend wearing an animal costume, she was very happy. We had so much fun.

 Love is not like what I expected because after three years together we broke. My first love did not turned out well because she cheated on me. She had a relationship with my friend. Then, when I knew about it, I felt so dissapointed. I don’t mind that she will cheated because we were together for a queit long time. I regret for falling in love with that girl because there is no loyalty in her. So its been a years being a single person but I feels so peace because there is no pressure from girl or to take care of girl heart. Past is worst and future will be better.

MY FIRST LOVE IS WORST!!!!

My first love

Love is in the air, love is everywhere!

First feelings are always special, new, unexplored, coupled with childish innocence and a pure vision of the world.

It may sound ridiculous, but the first time I felt that I’m alive, was the moment I felt in love for the first time. It was long time ago, at my previous house in Bangsar . I was 10-year-old boy and she was a 10-year-old girl, a daughter of my mother’s friend. We lived nearby and mothers often visited each other. The first time I saw her, I decided that she was the most perfect human being on the earth. The only presence of her nearby made me feel happy and delighted. Despite of my young age, I’ve understood that the world is made of love and it’s one of reasons that inspires mankind to live and create.

We spent much time together, we had endless themes to talk about! In the garden we had a special place, where we dreamed and talked. One day I told her that I like her and I do have a crush on her for a quiet long time ago but I was so young and dumb, I didn’t know that confessing to people that you like is actually something’s real. I was actually hoping that she feel the same towards me .While I was doing this, I didn’t mention that she came and was sitting and watching me for a while. I felt that she hugged me from the back and we continued sitting side-by-side and at the end we kissed. It was funny and unusually. From those time we haven’t kissed, but kept warm relations. We wrote each other more than a year, but one day she didn’t answer.

I like to pick this memory from my pocket on a nasty day, and life turns bright. The memories are so deep and clear, as I’m still a little boy, hanging around the gardens and singing the beautiful song about love.

-Nuqman Hsu

Aida:

Well, this is quite an interesting topic to talk about. Love is such a strong word. I never tell anyone I love them unless I truly mean it. I think that is the way that it should be. Whether it’s called romantic love, obsessive love, passionate love, or infatuation, men and women of every era and every culture have been affected by this irresistible power. I once felt the feeling of true love. The story begins back in 2012, I was only 14. I know, at such young age I felt such strong feelings.

I don’t want to go in detail because this entire blog would not be enough for me to tell you our story, but the guy that showed me what true love felt like has the brownest eyes, such adoring smile, he has the sweetest heart and is very romantic. Although we were still young back then, he made life so full of excitement and passion that I felt exhausted but could not stop.

Our whole relationship was magical, come to think of it; it was strong and powerful, but then, it was gone. Sometimes, I even wonder if it ever even happened because it ended so abruptly and without closure. I guess this is why he was my first love. Somehow, he left a big impact to me. In a way, he made me became wiser and stronger to face the obstacles in life. I once thought that the heartbreak   I felt back then could never cure. But true what they said, time heals.

I have concluded that no matter how much you love someone, it is hard not to hurt him or her. It is a matter of hoping for forgive and forget. To my first love, even though you may not read this, it breaks my heart to know that you are not my last. I still want to thank you for being my first love. I hope you are happy and is doing great in life wherever you are right now. 

-AH



Natasha;

Nothing lasts forever.

Hazel eyes, rosy cheeks, pointed nose, tall and also caucasian. I won't be mentioning his name here.

I had a crush on him when i was 12 years old. Too young? Yes. But just like everyone else, i also have feelings. He was the first guy that i had a crush on. His father is from London, United Kingdom and his mother is from here, Malaysia.

I had no idea what was his name. So i decided to use Facebook to search for him. It was easy for me because we were in the same school. So i just had to search for mutual friends. I found his friend on Facebook. I was so afraid to make a move. So i added his friend, named T. He ignored me!!! I didn't want to look desperate so i just kept my distance away. After a few weeks later, my crush added me on Facebook :)

We started talking until one day i noticed that he blocked me from his list of friends. I'm not sure why but i was not upset. He's a really fun person to be with. He didn't show me any signs that he wanted to be friends with me so i waited for 'One day'

*1 year passed by*

I got offered into a boarding school. My school had a carnival and coincidentally, my senior is his bestfriend. So a few months before the carnival, my senior told me that he invited A (My crush). I couldn't believe what i heard. I was so excited!

The day arrived. My senior and i waited for him and OH MY GOD THERE HE WAS MAKING HIS WAY TOWARDS US. We walked without saying anything until my senior had to leave us because she had to prepare herself for her performance. Awkward. So my senior said "Hey A, Natasha is here. Why did you block her?" "Oh no, it wasn't me i swear. It was my ex. Hi Natasha" he replied my senior while looking at me. My face turned red and he put a very bright smile on my face that day.

My senior left both of us and i quickly asked him "You can perform your Zuhur prayer here" while pointing at a room. He agreed and guess what? He left his phone with me just in case i wont be there after he's done performing his Zuhur prayer. I stayed and waited for him. We went for a walk and he bought me Oreo smoothies as a token of appreciation for being his personal tour guide on that day and as an apology for his ex's behavior.

Later, my parents came and we had lunch together. My mom knew i had a crush on him because she read my diary.. Okay. Ever since that day, we became really close to each other. He was always there to help me through my junior years. Making sure that i was okay and he was always there to give me support. We even studied History together through phone because i was going to sit for PMR and he was going to sit for SPM at that time. He even offered to send me good food when i was stressed out. He even gave me advices that i shouldn't simply fall for boys when i was 14 years old. He even protected me when i got cyber bullied. I felt safe when i was with him. 

He is now in Auckland. His ambition is to be a pilot. Therefore, now he is in a flying school. Last year, he told my teacher which is very close to me that he liked me and he is a little bit sad that i have someone else now.

Well, i waited for him since 2010. I waited for him for 6 years and i realized that he will only look for me when he needed something. I found myself someone better now and i am very grateful for it.

My First Crush

   Everyone has his or her first crush or first love. In addition, there is always a story behind it and the reason why they like someone. So did i. My first crush was someone from the college where I studied. And the story begins like this…..

She was standing right there. Alone. Looking for something. Her friends maybe.  With those, beautiful eyes looking around. With a beautiful smile like an angel. I can’t  keep my eyes off her. She was so gorgeous. That moment I knew I have fell in love with her at the first sight.

Days passing by and I found out that she was actually studied in the same course as I do. Out of nowhere, she sent me a Direct Message in Instagram if I need any book or helps regarding my subject. I was so happy. From a Direct Message on Instagram we continue our conversation on WhatsApp.

We started going out and seeing each other a few days later. It is kind of awkward at the first time but later on, we get along so well. Our relationship as a friend turned into a relationship of a sweet loving couple. She is now the lover of my life. My one and only.

That was my story about my first crush that ends up being my lover. Thank you for keep reading it.

HAZIQ 



NADIA ROSLYNNA

Do you still remember the feelings that you felt when you in love for the first time?  My first love was like a roller coaster. It gave excitement, fear and nervous but after all, at the end of it, it gives us happiness and relieve.

The first time I felt to in love was when I was in tuition with my classmate. He was one of the intelligent students in our class. A silent type of man but had sense every time he opened his mouth. Every time I saw him approaching me, my heart beat like a drum. Its sound was much louder than my voice so I hardly heard his voice. I was shy and anxious with myself thinking these questions: did I look beautiful? Did he like me, too? I was not paying attention to what he was saying. My heart spoke louder than him. I always wanted to go to tuition just to see him. I saw difficult things into a simplest one; though I was in a big puzzle having hard time to solve what was really in there, what he really felt.

One day, I was seated in the class alone, listening to songs while doing my project when he approached me. He seated beside me and asked if he could disturb me for a while. Timidly but agitated, I said yes. Then he told his feeling towards me. We felt the same. Our feelings were mutual. When I heard this, the sounds of the birds became the love song to my ear, the grass turned into a beautiful flower and the sky was smiling at me. I felt that I was like a princess in a fairy tale, having the long hair and he was my prince who would do everything just to prove his love to me. During this time, I did not want to lose this ecstasy in my life.

I was not expecting that this delight of mine had an end. My colorful world turned into dark. My happiness turned into sadness. He was like an air to me that I could felt his love but couldn’t touch it. Couldn’t hold it.

I gave up tired of waiting and hoping that someday our road will cross again, until I met this good looking man. He was a responsible, family bounded and thoughtful man who captured my heart for the second time. Finally, I gave my heart to him, to the man who can give up everything just to make me happy.

 Looking back of my first love, I’m glad that I felt it. Though we were not meant for each other, memories of him still placed in one part of me. This experience of mine looked like a book that did not have an end, but I chose to put a conclusion with it. Not about my first love, but with the man who endures pain just to spend his life with me, my one and true love.

My Favorite TV Commercial

My Favourite Tv Commercial

Commercial is a very common things in television, production company produces thousands of commercial every year . Thus , creative and attractive commercial will get more feedback by the audiences. Its either their shops will be flooded by the customers or the feedback towards the product will be satisfied.

I have my favourite tv commercial. This commercial shows every year during fasting months . It is ‘ Yusoff Tayoob ‘, this commercial promotes arabic dates. What attracts me the most is , the girl’s voice in the commercial , it is mellifluous, which is very soft and sweet. The way she mentions ‘ Yusoff Tayoob’  makes me want to buy their products.

The desert background make the audience feel like they are in an Arab Sovereign State . Futhermore, the color tone in the commercial is suitable for the products which is very warm. I think the editor has a very good taste in choosing color tone for the commercial and the background music also make it more interesting to watch by the mass audience, which is Arabic traditional music which consist darbuka , bongo , and guitar

Every year during fasting months, Im always turn on the television and wait until they shows the commercial , I feel very pleasure when I hear the girl’s voices. I will say it along with the announcer until my parents get annoyed. 

-Nuqmanhsu


Aida;

              

This is by far my favourite TV Commercial. This advertisement shows a young man that helped people at their hardship and struggles in lives. He was not a wealthy man, just like the other people in the ads, his live was not easy. This commercial is my favourite because it shows good morality and proves that humanity still exists in this era. In this ad, there is an old man who would judge the young man every day because he would give money to a homeless mother and her child that sits beside the road regardless of his financial problems.

From my perspective of view, I think it is wrong for the old man to judge, because the young man only wanted to help. At the same time, I also learned moral values and it personally touched my heart. I would lie if I say I did not cry after watching this ad. I don’t want to go in further details about the advertisement because I want you all to see why this commercial is my favourite. You would understand at the end of the video.

-AH

NATASHA NORMAN.

Ever since i was little, my sister and i were involved in TV commercials, There were so many commercials and i really wish i could list them all down. Out of all the commercials, this commercial by Astro will forever be my favorite. Why?

My sister was in this commercial back in 2008 and that's nothing much. The reason why this is my favorite commercial is because, after this commercial, Astro offered my sister to be an icon for the smart learning channel. Everything changed after that. She was really busy with roadshows and we were always there with her. Ever since then, Astro decided to continue her contract for another 4 years. We had so many benefits such as free Astro, we felt what it's like to have bodyguards ((Even if i'm going to the toilet)), we met so many well-known celebrities.Until today, we still contact each other for my mom's business.

As a corporate communication student, i think having network with these people will probably help me one day.

RAHMAD

 From all the commercial in televisyen, i very interested with this one because the commercial was so funny. The way they sing "saya tak boleh lupa itu subway chicken tandoori". This commercial was filmed to promote their subway chicken tandoori. 

  There is a Singh that sing the song. The way he sing the song was so funny and the body language was so smooth. Not just that Singh guy only, the other customer in the restaurant follow him sing together while grab their chicken tandoori. I do like to eat subway because the taste of the food is nice and the price is affordable. but  never taste the chicken ayam tandoori because i do not like chicken tandoori.

   This commercial has two version of languange. In malay and English but if we hear it in malay version, it is more funny because we get the joke. They just changed the voice of the actor to english. They did not react the commercial. That is why in malay version is more funny than english. Subway know how to attract people to buy their food. This commercial still fresh in my mind ever it was a long time ago.

HAZIQ

My Favourite TV Commercial

Everyone who’s watching tv knows that there’s always a commercial for a break. Sometime it takes over than 5 minutes for a commercial. But there’s one of my favorite TV commercial which is from a Petronas Hari Raya 2007 commercial that I still can’t forget till these day.

The commercial is about a fatherly love that missing his wife on the Aidiladha. His son coming closer to him and ask him to join for a gathering. But instead, the father ask her son, what kind of bird that make the sound that he heard.

He keep repeating the question over and over again until his son was fed up and ask him what else does he want his son to say. The father later give a diary written by his wife to his son. His son read it the part where when he was a child, he also asking his father the same question about the bird over and over again.

Without hesitation or getting angry, his father keep answering the question as much as he ask. Because of the father really love his son, he patiently answer the question even though it was the same question. His son later quickly apologize to him and regret for what he have said to him.

This is my favorite TV commercial that I really love and I will remember it forever and always. 

Speed Dating

What exactly is speed dating? The definition of this is actually making an acquaintance in a matter of 5 minutes or less and then moving on to the next person. If you are interested in a particular person and vice versa, you can then exchange numbers to build your bond with the other person. There are definitely pros and cons in the partaking of this certain process but I certainly do agree as to the fact that this method helps people out.

First and foremost, it allows people to meet newer individuals out there in the world. Through this, it helps people who have lower self-confidence to actually put themselves out there without being judged of their looks. The main focus of speed dating is to find someone who is able to build an ongoing conversation with another unless the party has a different agenda on their mind.

Secondly, it is considered a much more conducive environment for people to actually engage conversations. Unlike meeting someone in a bar or a night out, you can actually be able to have a more meaningful conversation rather than the fact as to when they are intoxicated and unaware of what is actually going on which usually ends up in you missing that one person who might be perfect for you.

Thirdly, you are categorized in your own age group or even depending on your interests in certain places. This actually helps a certain group to meet someone who is passionate about an interest which you have. It also helps a party to have much more meaningful conversation with someone which actually can build into something greater there.

All in all, speed dating is actually an interesting process which has a lot of benefits for each individuals. So what are you waiting for? Go out there and start meeting new people!

-Nuqman Hsu


Aida:

Personally I have never tried this Speed Dating thing. Based on my research, in the UK speed dating involves men and women meeting in a room and learn about each other as much as possible in three minutes time. Then a bell is rung and you move to another person and start chatting again. By the end of the evening, you would meet around twenty people. If by the end of the conversation, you fancy the person or would like to see them again, you write it down on a card. Then, if the other persons also fancies you, the organisers will contact you with their details.

 Personally I think this method is ridiculous. I would not want to spend my entire evening chatting with strangers and evaluate them just by our three minutes chats. I would rather have a proper conversation with someone over lunch or dinner and take as much time we need in order to get to know each other even more. At the same time, we could also have a wider topics in the conversation. We could talk about how cute cats are for all we know.

Most people nowadays belittle relationship and easily take it as only a “game”.  Where did all the values and chivalry went? If I could choose which era to be in, I would choose to be in the 80’s . Back then, writing letters and giving flowers were the thing. Men would ask girls out properly in the most romantic way. They put so much effort just to ask a girl out. Now, in order for you to ask a girl/boy out is just to simply text them, “Lunch tomorrow?”. Is chivalry really dead? I hope not.

In conclusion, I am not the biggest fan with speed dating. I am that hopeless romantic type of person so mind me. But I have nothing against speed dating. Everyone have different perspectives, so this is only my opinion. All love no hate. 

-AH


Nadia Roslynna;


So I've been asked by my lecturer to give some thoughts about Speed Dating and I honestly have no idea about it haha. Speed Dating is a matchmaking process which allows people to talk with each other within 7 minutes and then change to another one, is considered as the most effective manner for singles to meet their dream men or women. As we spot out the benefits of this kind of dating, we should also be aware of the questions it may bring up.

How deep can you know about a new person with a conversation that lasts only for 7 minutes? Probably not so much. The most evident problem speed dating may create is that communication is too little for you to understand a stranger in such a short period. You can, for instance, finding out what his job or hobbies is, but never his personality or characteristic. As a consequence of misjudgement, you are likely to find that you dated a person who are not the one you expect.

Another disadvantage to mention is the potential peril posed during the second individual meeting. Yes, you can prove the information participant provided authentic or not. However, you can't tell he is a good person or not. The organizer can not ensure the participant are all good people with no bad intention. This may put women into danger when they hang out with strangers they meet in speed dating afterward.

Everything is two-sided, either do speed dating is. Just be careful while you are meeting new attractive singles and don't judge a book by its cover, understand more about him or her before making decision.



Natasha;

What is speed dating? Speed dating is one of many ways of dating where you meet a number of partners or dates in an event that is organized. In my opinion speed dating brings more cons than pros. Here are some of the cons.

First, the time provided for speed dating is too short. The short time provided is not enough to impress people or even to get to know someone. So, mostly the decisions are made based on appearance and self-presentation. If you are looking for long and serious relationship, this may not be a good idea.

Second, speed dating is all about first impression, if the first impression doesn’t come off well, there is no chance. When people are speed dating, they tend to get a bit nervous. Because of the nerves, the first impression may not be all that great. So, if you don’t make a good first impression, you chances to nailed that date will flop.

Last but not least, you are talking to strangers. People that you never met and never heard about before. People can have various intentions and those beautiful or good looking looks can hide it pretty well. You will never know their true intentions unless you get to know them better. Which is in this case, you don’t.

 - Natasha xoxoxo

Rahmad

I do not know much about speed dating. This is my first time hear about speed dating. After I research about the speed dating, finally I knew the meaning of speed dating. Speed dating is an organized social activity in which people seeking romantic relationships have a series of short conversations with potential partners in order to determine whether there is mutual interest.

I never did the speed dating because it is so not my type because as we know speed dating is we meet someone then know them and fall in love just like that. From my opinion, speed dating has an advantages and disadvantages. First, I would like to talk about the advantages of speed dating. Speed dating can help someone that do not have a girlfriend or alone in a short time. People who hard to find a lover, can easier to find their partner in life.

Next, the disadvantage of speed dating is people will easier to get cheat by their speed dating partner because they do not know with who they dating with. They do not know what is their attitude, manner, and so on. So from here, after they know each other for a week, maybe one of them will cheat because of not willing to love each other.

The conclusion is speed dating has their advantage and disadvantage. If we use this method to find a lover, we might be find our true love but we can get cheat easily if our partner is not a good person.

Rahmad.

HAZIQ

    In the world that were making everyone busy with their personal things and life, we sometime don’t even have time to meet 

   I considered this as one of my speed dating experience. This someone for a long time and having a long conversation. happened to me last year when I was going out with my friend, Daniel, which he wanted to meet his girlfriend. Unfortunately I did not know that his girlfriend is bringing her other friend.

   So, I had to accompany her friend, which is Maria, for a moment. She asked me a lot of question in a short period time. I was kind of shy because I did not know her so well and she is super cute.

   Later on when Daniel done talking to his girlfriend, we wanted to go somewhere else and out of nowhere, Maria gave me her number so that I can contact her and having a conversation later.

   That was my story about my speed dating which doesn’t take much time for Maria and me to get to know each other.