A Letter To My Future Spouse

Natasha Norman:

"Dear future husband,

Here's a few things you'll need to know if you wanna be

My one and only all my life

Dear future husband,

If you wanna get that special lovin'

Tell me I'm beautiful each and every night" -Meghan Trainor

#JustKidding #MightBeTrueAlso 

Dear future husband, i have to admit that i am not easy to handle. Loving me can be very difficult. I have anxiety, i will say whatever that comes into my mind. I don't like to sugar coat things and it will make an impact on our relationship. That feeling you feel before a test? No. It’s not the type of anxiety. That is normal. The difference is that i can be totally content and happy, and out of nowhere i am filled with anxiety. I am sorry for that. I didn't ask for being like this. I wish you could make me the happiest and take away the pain. To watch your words when you talk to me so that i won't blow up and curse you with words you wouldn't even want to listen. I can be very stubborn too but do guide and make me feel better. Please? I really hope that you will able to accept me for the way i am. I hope you know how much pain that i have to go through, how many sleepless nights crying over silly things, how much courage i put to live each day when there is no point of living. Yes, that is how i feel. I have goals, i have ambition and i need someone to help me achieve my goals and my ambition. I am aware of how i act when i have anxiety, and i know it is not always pleasant. When it happens, i hope that you won't scold me or shout at me. All i want is for you to talk nicely, inveigle me and make me feel better. Discuss if you are not satisfy with my actions. Communication is the key to everything. I will never know when the chest tightness, feeling of failure, shaking, sweating, and any other side effect will happen. So, i hope you are mentally prepared when the day comes. Anxiety is something that i have learned and i have to deal with no matter what. I know that it will indeed impact some days of our relationship, please don't focus on those. People will usually think that it is a weakness, i don't like that because that is not true. I have been able to live with something that i am terrified of inside of me, and if that doesn't make me tough i don't know what does. I hope you will be able to keep me happy and stay with me until we are grey and old.

Dear future husband, i promise that i will try my best to keep you happy despite having unstable emotions. Put me as your priority besides God and your parents. I will do the same thing towards you too. I also hope that you will understand my needs. I wish that we will be able to love each other until we die and not to give up on each other. I also want us to work hard in order to provide the best for our kids so that they won't face any difficulties in financial throughout their lives. I want us to give them the best especially in education. Not just that, i also want you to guide me to the right path. So that God will grant you with Jannah, one day. I really hope that you will be able to understand my work, and won't get mad or jealous immediately. I don't like fighting over petty things. To me it's childish. Not to forget, do not push me to my limits. If i stop arguing in the middle of an argument, please understand that you need to stop too. This is a warning!!! 

Forever does exist if you believe in it. 

Love you loads, N.

Aida:

Dear future Soulmate,

I know you won't read this but I hope you're doing okay wherever you are right now. I can't wait until the day that God chooses to cross our paths. Perhaps, we’ve met already and it’s just in a matter of time till I get to call you mine forever? Hehe. I can’t wait until the day I could wake up in your arms, feeling warm and safe.

I want to share my happiness and sadness only with you. To build our own family and raise our kids to be well-educated and successful people one day. I want that feel where I can look at you and not want to look at any other man. I love the idea that I can go home every night from work to know that my loving husband will be there waiting for me when I get home; or the fact that you are all mine forever and always.

I am hoping and praying for you to come into my life one day. A man that will love me, respect me, and appreciate everything I have to give and all my love. I am keeping my standards high for a reason to find a wonderful guy like you.

I am so excited to spend my life with such a great man and one that I can sing horribly to and know that you look at me like I am the cutest person in the world. One that will allow me to plan all these cute date ideas and make many weird videos together. I am so excited to go on adventures, to share so many memories together. I am so excited to laugh with you, to cry with you, to be mad, to explore, and to love you. I am excited to grow as a person and a couple together and to find new ways to be better in your eyes.

I might be annoying sometimes because half of the time, I can't contain my emotions and excitement over little things. I hope you will get just as excited with me and not get annoyed. If I get mad at you don’t let me run away because that is what I am good at. Don’t let me complain and yell at you. Grab me and hug me. Tell me that everything will be okay. Let me break down in your arms to know that it will all be okay. Never let us go to bed angry, as that will just make it worse. Always say sorry for what you did wrong as I will do the same. Own up to our mistakes and we will have that much more of a great relationship.

Last but not least, I can’t wait to love you with all my heart and cherish you till the end of time. I will see you when I see you, love! 

- Your future wifey! 

AH
                                                                       

                                                                     Rahmad

Dear my future lovely wife,

         First of all, i really want you to know that i love you so much. I hope that you are doing okay right now. I want you to be with me and make a lot of memories together. Be mine forever and i will always love you and keep you save with me.

        You might be somewhere far away or just around me. I want to take a good care of you when we are together. Make a joke and laugh together, do some weird stuff and always love each till our last breath. If you got a problem, you can share your problem with me and i will be your best listener. Comfort you every time you sad. I do not want you to be sad because i cant let people who i really love sad. i cant promise you that i will always make you happy but as long as i still alive and be with you, i will try my best to make you happy. Your day will always happy when we are together.

         I am the one who always fall in love with you every time i see you. In the morning, when you wake up i will be a person that make your morning be a wonderful morning. Give you a kiss on your head, wishing good morning and say i love you, always smile when see you wake up next to me, and staring at your eyes like our first met. I want you look happy when you wake up because when you happy, that is means everything to me.

         I want to build our own family and have a beautiful kids. I will always be a good husband to our family. Take care and protect our family and always provide what our family need. We will raise our kids together with high education, keep loving our kids, make them happy and always teach them a good thing. We  will be the best parent ever. For me, you and our family is everything.

         I want to travel around the world with you because i do love travel. Create a great memories with the one i really love, and its you. I want to spend my whole life with you. We will go every single place that you wish to go. Holding hand and make a sweet memories. I will do anything to make sure you are happy and enjoy your life with me. 

          Last but not least, i cant wait to see you, dear love. i hope that you will always in a good ways. I cant wait to kiss on your head when we are officially married. If you are in relationship with other guys, please break up because i'm here waiting you. *vomit (HHAHAHAHHAHAH)

HAZIQ

 

 

Dear My Future soulmate,

                  This is extremely hard to write due to the fact I don't know when i 'll be married. It may be at the age of 25, or even 30 but all I know is that it will happen someday. Being with me is not going to be easy, I guarantee it. I'm annoying, loud, energetic, sarcastic, emotional, and that's just a select few. I enjoy small compliments such as "You look handsome today" or even "You Smell great". I may not come off as liking compliments because i 'll give you a weird expression, but deep down inside it will make me feel great about myself. I rarely keep my room clean and I can become extremely lazy with the snap of my fingers. I know this sounds like a lot, but I promise it will be worth it.

                     I’m here always waiting for you to be my wife. I hope i can be the best person that can guide you to the heaven even i ’m not the good guy and not your type but i will try my best to be the first and last person that you will never forget. I also hope that you can accept me as your husband and accept me as i am. I want to build a good marriage and happy with you, and we have a good child, cute, pious and righteous kids. Every time you have bad day its no things that you have to worried because i will cheer you up and always besides you through thick and thin.

                     I want you to know that once i have love someone i will love sincerely and i’m not will let him go. So i hope you can be my best wife that i have, i also want you to be a teacher and doctor to our kids that can teach them and treat them while them sick. I want our kids to be able to look up to us and think "I want to be in a relationship like Mommy and Daddy one day".I want to be able to tell myself that we can work through any problems, no matter how hard it may get.

                     Lastly, I'm not asking for a lot out of you. I don't need dinner when I come home every night. I don't even need the laundry done by a specific time. These are all things I can take care of while you go out on shopping spree's and lunches with your friends. All i'm looking for is the support and love that I have been imagining throughout my life.

Sincerely, your Future Husband

            MH

NADIA ROSLYNNA

Dear Future Spouse,

The first thing you need to know is, never underestimate what you mean to me. By the time you have the occasion to read this, I will have invested a significant portion of my life thinking, planning, anticipating, and, yes, dreaming about our life together. Not just the beginning, the wedding day, but each day until death do we part. Each moment matters – promise you will not forget that. 

By the time we marry, we will probably have had a few laughs about who we thought we would wed at ages thirteen, fourteen, fifteen.... But there is always the possibility that we will not be laughing about it. What if I do end up marrying the person I'm thinking about right at this moment, in 2009? You know, I think I would laugh. It is sort of amusing. However, if I am dead wrong, and “current crush” never becomes “future husband,” I'll be happy to accept that. I will hold out for someone who knows what love means. 

What does love mean to you? I've learned that love is commitment to the point of sacrifice. Would you sacrifice for me the things I would sacrifice for you? If love is a choice rather than a feeling, will you love me when I fail to deserve it? Can I do the same for you? 

One of my deepest hopes is having children together. Sometimes, when I see little ones walking down the street with their mums and dads, I wonder what ours will look like. In my blue wallet, I keep a list of names written on a piece of paper. I'm excited about someday having the opportunity to explain what each of them means to me, and finally choosing the perfect combination. 

Remember, though, that even if we end up without little sprouts or a picket fence or a rose garden, your love will still mean more than the world to me, and I hope mine will mean the same to you. The most beautiful gift I can think of would be the affection of someone who waited for me. I promise I will wait for you so that we will never live in the shadow of trying to forget exes to whom we gave everything. 

Take God-given opportunities – you never know which one will bring us together. You have my faith and trust. 

I love you.

 

Write A Fan Letter To Your Favorite Actor/Actress

Aida:

Dear Zac Efron,

Before you made your cable network debut in High School Musical, I thought boys were gross. However, when I first saw you as Troy Bolton with your floppy mop of brown hair and beautiful blue eyes, I knew you were the one for me. Despite the fact I was only ten and you were eighteen, I somehow knew it was meant to be. When you sang "and now looking in your eyes, I feel in my heart the start of something new," I could just tell you were speaking directly to me. Tell me who would not fall for that?

But I’m writing you this letter to tell you how disappointed I was when you did not attend the High School Musical Reunion.

Zac, how could you miss the reunion? Do you know how many hearts have you broken?

As you so famously said as the iconic Troy Bolton, "this is only gonna happen if we all work together, now who is with me?" Well, apparently you are not with the rest of us because you decided to skip out when your team needed you the most. This is worse than the time Troy ditched all his friends for Italian golf shoes in the second movie. I thought that through your character's struggles, mistakes, and self-realizations, you would have figured out by now how to be the Wildcat team captain. As Chad, your best friend in the movies, says, "we voted you captain because you're the guy who normally knows what's up." Well, Zac I do not even know what is up or down anymore because seeing that empty chair at the reunion turned my world upside down.

Alright, I am getting side tracked. Yes, I still find you super attractive, but Zac I am disappointed. I am saddened. What would have happened at the end of the first movie if Troy had not showed up to sing "Breaking Free" with Gabriella. It would have been a total let down. Well, I feel totally let down. I feel more let down than Gabriella did when you guys got set up by your friends for not conforming to dumb high school cliques.

But regardless of all that, I am still your biggest fan. If you were to show up on my front door right this instant and ask me to clean your toilet, I could literally drop everything and be your cleaner for the rest of my life. Kidding. But jokes aside, thank you for all the fun experiences you shared with me throughout all 3 High School Musicals. You are amazing.

P/S: please stop getting hotter. 

PPS: please show up at my door right now

-AH


Natasha:

Dear Adam Noah Levine, 

I am Natasha and i'm from Malaysia. You have no idea how much i adore you ever since your album, Songs About Jane was released back then in 2002. I was only 4 years old and i fell in love with your songs. As i grew older, i realized that you're the only singer/actor/songwriter that i adore. 

Yes, there are so many other actors with cute faces but to me, nobody can beat you. In 2012, you came to Malaysia and i was so sad because i couldn't make it to your concert. I wanted to go to your concert so bad. I even cried because i couldn't go due to school. When i saw your music video for Sugar, i got really jealous because i wished that i could meet you on the streets just like those girls.

I even heard that you have an Indonesian maid. I once told my mom that i wanted to quit school and become your maid!!! (HAHAHA believe it or not) 

Not just that, every 19th of March, i also tweeted you a birthday wish even when i know that i won't be getting any replies. I followed every single updates about you. From your songs and also movie. I personally think Begin Again is very boring but i watched that movie because of you.

Can you come and perform on my wedding day like how you did in your music video? Please?

My only wish is to meet you one day. Do know that you will always have my support in everything you do!!! 

Lots of love, 

Your biggest fan ((Besides your wife, i guess))

P/s: I even  told my mom that i want to name my son, Noah.

RAHMAD

Dear Peter Gene Hernandez, Bruno mars.

I'm your fans since when i was 15 teens. I like the way you sing with you high note. Your voice was so unique and amaze me. I can see that you got a talent in singing. Your 24k album was so great. One of the song in the album which is That's what i like was so amazing. i like the way you dance even that was simple dance, I still like it a lot

I wish that i can meet you and take a selfie with you.  i really hope that i can come to your concert and get a full access ticket so i can meet you on backstage. Not all singer have unique voice like you, i cam see that you can sing in many genres. you can sing high  note music, low key music, and so on. your song "when i was your men" was so  meaningful. The way you sent the message to the audience that hear your song with your unique voice was so deep.

I wish that i can collaborate with you even i do not have a unique voice. I will be the happiest person ever in this world. Collaborate with you is the best thing that people really want to especially your fans. As we know, your fans always want to sing with you.

Last but not least, i really adore your voice and style. I really hope that i can meet you one day in front of my face and talk to you. If what i wish come true, i might be cut my hair to bald hairstyle. But i know that it is impossible to meet you because i'm just a fans that wishing many thing without trying.

HAZIQ

A Letter to My Favorite Actor

Dear Jim Carrey,

     I’m your biggest fan. I seriously love your acting skills and I think you’re one hilarious man inside and out of the movies. Your acting in The Mask was very good and it feels like natural and the character that you played in that movie a little bit kind of describe who you are.

You’re a happy, funny man but full of wisdom. Everything you said sometime encourage me to do better in my life. Your words gave me much positive impact and I want to thank you for that. I laugh everytime I watch your movies. My favorite movies is The Mask, Liar Liar, Yes Man, Mr. Popper’s Penguins and many more. In fact, I love all your movies.

Your acting skills was so good that you can nailed every character you were given to played in the movies. You’re truly very talented actor and I give that to you. Here by, I want to thank you as a token of appreciation for your hard work and dedication in making your fans feel happy with your acting and movies.

Keep moving forward and never give up in doing whatever you are doing. I will always support you as your number 1 diehard fan. You’re doing a great job and take the criticism as the one that going to motivate you in your future. All the best and beat the rest.

Sincerely,

Haziq 




NADIA ROSLYNNA






Dear Channing Tatum,

I am writing this letter to let you know that you have one more fan to add to the list of millions of others who claim to be your "Number One Fan" of all time. In my world, it's true. There are no others like me, until reality hits then I become just one of them haha. 

I don't know if you'll be able to read this. I don't know if you've ever seen any of the letters or notes that we, the fans send to you, and I probably never will know, but that's okay. I will keep the faith that you've received everything we've sent to you, whether it's in physical form, as in letters, presents or in spirit, when we're cheering or chanting during your concerts and other engagements, which is our way of letting you know how much we love what you do, and how much we love you hehe.

I know that you have to be careful with your image. You're a human being too. You're not perfect and you're going to make mistakes, you're going to have bad days, you're going to bed bad mouthed, put down, and made fun of. That's the "norm" everywhere, and it's just not fair. 

I am writing this letter not just out of frustration because I can't be with you all the time, like all fans want. We're only compatible and perfect for each other in our dreams, and fantasies. (No worries, my dreams and fantasies aren't too dangerous, at least in my opinion haha) 

I know that you have your own dreams, and that being our idol happened to be one of them. That's not the only thing you want to be, right? I have changed my dreams and goals so many times, fell down a lot, got back up a lot too, and never gave up going after what I want because giving up is not in the Idol's Vocabulary and the one constant thing in my life, other than family, and friends I've made along the way, has always been that person, or people that I've looked up to, that I'm not related to music, arts, and entertainment.

I'm not the only one that felt this way for ages. Fans come and go, as do groups, bands, and solo artists. One fan, like myself, may idolize many groups, bands, idols, etc.. because, with time, everything changes, and so do people. Interests change along with that, and so does determination, and faith. 

I think this fan letter is long enough. If I don't stop now, it might get creepier and I might even start sounding like a stalker. I want you to know that I love you. I'll appreciate everything you do and will always be supporting you. 

Is Friendship More Important Than Love?

Aida:

So firstly, before I go on to what my answer is for the question, what is friendship? Friendship for me is like having another version of you. The general traits of a friendship includes similar interests, mutual respect and an attachment to each other. Friendship for most people is a combination of affection, loyalty, love, respect and trust. True friendship is when someone knows you better than yourself and takes a position in your best interest crisis. We all need friends. If not, we would be all alone in this cruel world. Having friends does not only mean having companion, but it is also good for the heart.

Next, what is love? Love is a force of nature. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself. It comes naturally. It can be unpredictable. You can even find yourself loving people you don’t like at all. Love is inherently free. It cannot be bought, sold or traded. You cannot make someone love you, nor can you prevent it, for any amount of money. Love comes in every aspects. Family, friends, lovers, or even strangers. For example, arranged marriage. In the end, we know that it may have little enough to do with love. 

For me both friendship and love are equally important. Without friendship, there wouldn’t be love and if it wasn’t for love, there isn’t such thing as friendship. Both friendship and love have their separate importance in life. So we should prioritise both equally because they are both important.

-AH

Rahmad

Friendship and love are two things that very important for human. Friendship is a type of relationship between two people or more who care about each other. But such a dry definition does not do the concept of friendship justice. Friends that know everything about you because they know us from we was a kid. Love is a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection to pleasure. It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment. For me friendship is the most important.

First, why friendship is more important for me because friend always be with us when we got a problem. Like example, when your car is broke down, you will ask your friends to help you. If you ask your love one, they cannot do anything because they do not know anything about car.

Next, friend is a place that you share our problem if you fight with our girlfriend. If we do not have place to share our problem, you will get stressed and keep it by yourself. Friend can comfort you and give advice how to solve the problem. As we know, our friends has their own experience about love.

Further, every friend is important and their importance in know to us when certain situation arise which can only be solved by our friends. One can never feel lonely in this world if we is surrounded by true friends. On the other hand, loneliness prevails in the lives of those who do not have friends despite of billion and billions of people present in the world. It had been truly said that “A friend in need is a friend indeed”

In conclusion, friend is more important than love because they will always with us no matter what happen. Always be with us when we have a problem. Love is our future but friendship is everything.

Natasha ;

EQUAL.

They say that there is no such thing as love without friendship and there is no such thing a friendship without love. Is it true? 

As for me, i do agree with that statement. The fact that people can't love someone without them being friends first and people cannot be friends without love is definitely true. Don't you think so?

Friendship is a type of relationship between two or more people who care about each others. A friend is the one who will make your day better. A friend is the one who will stay with you for the rest of the day. You need to have friends because life without friends is like a mac and cheese without cheese. On the other hand, love is bigger than you are. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself. You can choose to surrender to love, or not, but in the end love strikes like lightening and unpredictable.

The question is, is friendship more important than love? Before i answer this question, let me explain a few things. Friendship and love are two different things. Friendship usually starts when we meet people, we greet them, we talk to them and from there, our relationship with people will grow day by day. However, love is something different. Have you ever heard about love at first sight? You can't predict love. Because it involve our feelings. You can be in love with someone you hate. You can be in love with a stranger. The feeling, it is indescribable. Only those who felt it will know.

So back to our question. In my opinion, friendship and love are equal. It is a completely different thing. But both are important. Therefore, it is equal.



NADIA ROSLYNNA

This is not wrong statement if one says that love and friendship are alternative terms. Both have their own charms and the answer to their importance varies from situation to situation and even gender to gender. For a woman, love is everything. If she has true love in her life then she will never go for friendships (either male or female). But this aspect also varies because a few women want a friend (instead of love) to sob and to share life matters but a few women always prefer to share everything to the one they love. 

While regarding men, in most of the cases it has been observed that they always need a friend besides their beloveds in their lives because they think that the one they love can not understand them properly. In fact the reason is that a man does not want to show the weaker part of his personality to his beloved while he can share all the things with his friend (either male or female). 

So there is no hard and fast rule to measure the importance of love over friendship or friendship over love. Both can have importance from various aspects in one's life. But if we talk about regardless of gender and situation then we can say that if  the friendship sweeter then love is the sweetest.

HAZIQ

Is Friendship More Important Than Love

Is friendship more important than love? We all have been stuck sometime between choosing friends over lover. Based on my opinion, both are important equally. Not just that we need to choose ones against another, but more to spent our time fairly with them.

It is true that friends can help you if you’re in trouble or else and so do your lover. For me, the easiest way to spent our time equally so that one of them won’t be sulking or irritating is that we going out all together. Which mean I bring my girlfriend whenever I hang around with my buddies. So that my friends will know who I’m dating with right now and my girlfriend can know who I’m being friends with.

Sometime we need our friends to share our problems with life or with lover and they can come up with a brilliant solution as they’re speaking from their experience. We also need our lover to be loved and appreciated or maybe our place to share everything.

For me, based on under some circumstances and situation, we have to choose any of them and make things clear so that they will understand your decision and perhaps support you. Thanks J

Compliments That People Have Given To You

Aida;

Compliments are one of the most extraordinary components of social life. If given right they create so much positive energy that they make things happen almost as if by magic. They ease the atmosphere around two people and kindly dispose people to each other. I believe everyone has gotten compliments in their life. Regardless of what is it about. Some of them might gave a big impact to someone. I for one had received several of compliments. For me, getting compliments would some time boost up my mood or confident level.

One of the compliments that I could not forget till this day was from a friend of mine. She said I was such a good sister, looking over my siblings. She said, I should win an award for being the best sister. Honestly, after I heard that I was on the edge of tears. I have always felt my effort and love was not enough for my siblings. I felt unappreciated. But upon hearing that, it lifted up my strength to be a better sister for my siblings. In a way, it made me feel stronger mentally. In fact, that was all I needed to hear in order for me to feel better.

Next, is the comments I usually get on Instagram from my lovely friends. I am trying so hard not to sound conceited right now. I hope it is working. One of the usual compliments I get from my girl friends are, they said I have such nice hair. They love the colour and the waviness. Though, they have no idea how long it took for me to make it not frizzy and go all crazy. But I think it was all worth it, if I get that much of compliments.

Last but not least, of course compliments from my mum. With my mum, it’s the littlest things she said to me would already made my day. She appreciates the little things. For example, I remember that one time I fixed our broken house phone and she said “Omg Kakak, we don’t even need to call anyone to help us fix this. We’re so lucky to have you. Proud to have you Kakak”. Yes, to you it might sound funny that I would be happy she said that but honestly, whatever makes my mum happy, would make me the happiest. Therefor, I would do anything to make my mum proud.

-AH

RAHMAD

 Today I am going to talk compliment. Compliment is a thing that what people say to you about your talent or something that you good at. People like to give a compliment on what they see such as our beautifulness or achievement. I would like to story about what compliment that I have got as long as I live.

  First, when I was 17 years old, I have joined a handball tournament organized by SMK Ideal Height. I represented for my school’s team. On that tournament, I did my best and perform so much well on that time. We are not win the tournament but we got third place. And after the tournament all my teammates call me “Dos Santos”. It’s just because of I threw the ball so hard and score the goal so they call me with that name.

  Next, when I got back home, my uncle came to my house then he said my face has changed a lot compared to last time he saw me. He said I look so matured and good looking. We did not meet after a long and when he saw, he was surprised. Not only my uncle, all my relatives that never saw me  for a long time said a same thing.

Further,  I am skater when I was 16. My and friends wanted to learn a new trick called “360 Flip” then we compete each other  to learn that trick. After a week, I am the one who land that trick first . They ask me to do it in front of them and I did it. After I finished learn the trick they just call me “idol”

   It is all about what we have done and make people impressed so people will give us a compliment. Try be the best to get more compliment from people.

                                                             RAHMAD 

Natasha:

So basically, i have trust issues. It is very hard for me to trust people. I have no idea how to overcome this. I have anxiety where i am always scared and get panic without any reason. I'm sorry tho whoever who gave me compliments and only got a fake laugh back from me.. it's not that I'm being rude or something but to me, that is a joke. A very big joke. Some of the compliments that i have gotten in my life were, confident, independent, strong, a good listener and also great at giving advices. 

 Confident: I'm not sure why but most people said that i am confident. Maybe it's because of the way i talk and how i deliver myself, i guess. Not just that, i've also been taught that i should always stand up for myself. 

   Independent: I got this a lot. Maybe it's because i've been sent to boarding school at a very young age. Until today, i am able to be away for a long time from my family. I am able to do the house chores without being taught or told. My parents told me that i shouldn't rely on someone else and expect things to be done.

Strong: I doubt this one. Why? Because i always felt like i'm weak and i am not able to face this life. There are so many things that had happened and until now, things are still the same. I wish that i could really be happy and stop faking that smile on my face. My friends said that i am so strong that i can still smile even after all the things that people put me through. (Maybe it's just for them. I still cry in the middle of the night afraid of what will happen tomorrow and in the future. Shhh.. please keep this as a secret)

A good listener: This might be true. Maybe because i understand that feeling when all you need is someone to talk to. Like for real, just a good listener. A person who is willing to sit and listen (DON'T TALK OR JUDGE OR GIVE OPINIONS) It's hard to find people these days who are willing to spend time and listen what's going on in your mind. I used to wish that people would be a good listener. But i know, in order to make a change, i need to change first.

Great at giving advices: I didn't know that people will actually take my advices. I will only give my opinions or advices if they need it. I'll tell them based on my experience so that they won't feel what i've been through. Thank you to those who actually paid attention to my words. May God bless all of you. 

I really wish that i can learn how to believe and accept compliments from people. Thank you to those who actually acknowledged my kindness. Love you loads.



HAZIQ

Compliment That People Have Gave To You

AS a good looking guy and smart, people often gave me a lot of compliments. Hahaha I’m just kidding. But seriously, I do look good.

The best compliment that I ever heard was the one telling me that I’m a nice person and kind of funny type of guy. Most of them I get it from my friends and my girlfriends. Sometime there’s a small thing that we do but for some people it’s a big thing.

People around us will notice everything we say and whatever we do. So that’s why they always give me compliment but in a way to motivate me to do better. Most of my compliment basically based on my daily behavior like the way I talk and the way I make a simple things become funny.

It’s because I don’t like a serious situation where everyone just keep silent and playing with their phone instead of talking to each other. The more I talking to people, the more the find me a hilarious type of guy who would be fun to hang around with.

That was some of the best compliment that people have gave to me. It’s kind of make me happy and motivate me to be funnier that before. Hahaha :D 




NADIA ROSLYNNA






Some compliments come from strangers on the street, the people who see you but don't know you.

I've gotten the infamous "wolf whistles," the usual body inspections disguised as head nods and distant smiles, and the shouts from car windows with plenty of obscenities.

I've also received passing comments like, "I like your shirt," or the people who stop and say "I just had to tell you that you're really beautiful." While they cheered me up, they're still superficial.

We need to observe more than bodies and appearances.

Better compliments come from acquaintances who notice your habits.

I knew one person who came up to me one day and told me I never stopped smiling. She equated that with me being a cheerful person. I wasn't, but she told me she appreciated it anyway.

Another acquaintance observed that I said insightful comments in class.

The best compliments come from those closest to you - those who know your insecurities and quirks.

I've been told I'm a great listener, someone whom people can confide in, a calming presence. I've been told many things that inflate my ego or dismantle my humanity, but I've only been told one thing that made me feel like I was valued in an indescribable way.

They said, "You're not a person."

Out of context, this seems even worse than what the strangers did, less meaningful than the acquaintances, but it meant more to me than any other compliment.

We had been sitting on my futon for hours, talking and complaining about drama, school and work. All of our seemed more serious then and we couldn't hold anything in. We yelled and cried and apologized for our outrageous behavior until she lifted her head up from a pillow and enlightened me.

"Sometimes, I just get sick of people," she said. "But I haven't gotten sick of you."

I asked her why, thinking about all of the things I do that might annoy people. I interrupt people, I complain a bunch, I am way too stubborn...

"You're not a person," she explained. "I mean, you're not people."

I didn't pry for more information because I understood. To her, I wasn't included in the group of people who frustrated her, like those strangers who sexualized her or those acquaintances who didn't take the time to learn who she was. I wasn't on the same spectrum as those people. In fact, I wasn't a person at all.

I was something even better.